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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: August 09, 2013, 10:29:44 AM »

Just passed 10 months NC on the 7th.

One big reason for things unraveling was that a balked at her manipulation that I sell my house, buy hers and move in with her. I can't believe it now but I was actually thinking seriously of doing that.

But I had a dream (more like a nightmare) that I had followed her wishes and made the move and then she abandoned me anyway. I was stuck with crappy little house I didn't like and she was gone. The next morning I wrote her a note saying I wasn't doing it. We bounced around for another month or so but that was basically the end.

That dream saved my life. I'm still recovering emotionally and financially but I am recovering ... . not digging a deeper hole.
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