Dropped on my head... again :(

[sadinnc98]

I know I posted I was ready to end it after finding him on a dating website last night, but before I could do it, he ended it with me. Still hurts SO bad... . this comes on the heels of him telling me he wanted to get married, move in, looking at cars, real estate, etc... This is NOT the first time he has said this same "thing"... but with him starting counseling, I thought it might be better this time   This is the 31st breakup in 12 mos (Saturday is 1 year anniversary... or was) We were also previously engaged which he took back 13 days after proposing (broke it off via a text message and made me meet him at Walgreens to give back the ring)  All but 3 breakups have been for reasons like this-the other 3 were when he painted me black and ripped me apart over nothing.

This is what I got after being ignored for three days, via Facebook.

We do need to move on.  we are at two different places in life.  I care deeply for you but I am not right for this relationship.  nothing but great memories.  but we must move on.  I can not take on the responsibility of another wife and young family.  any playing house is doing no one any good.   it was awesome.  Good bye

As soon as he saw that I read the message, he unfriended  and blocked me. Wow.

The pain... . I know you guys understand this. I have been crying for two hours

[willtimeheal]

Wow!  I am so sorry for your pain.  Reading your post broke my heart.  Know you have friends and support here.

[Learning_curve74]

It hurts something awful to have someone you love treat you like this. When you're hurt bad, it's the best time to let it out by crying. Hang in there, you will get through this!

[peas]

It's amazing what pwBPD are capable of. My heart sank when I read the part about this man proposing marriage to you then taking the ring back. I really feel for you. Reading that made me so angry at your pwBPD. My exBPDbf bought me a promise ring, insisting an engagement ring was coming up, but two months later he started shutting off emotionally and eventually pushed me to our final fight. He had broken up with me about four times in seven months.

Start detaching from this person right away. It's going to be hard today but will save you stress in the long run. Cut your losses and create a better environment for yourself. Don't let this person take any more from you.