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[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

After walking out again 2.5 weeks ago and going almost no contact the diagnosed exBPD gf started sending me emails last night when she was out with friends. The emails started as never contact me again, then she kept sending more. She keeps asking me to destroy her in our child custody suit she filed a week ago. This morning she says she is never happy with me and we cannot be together but I need a lawyer to fight her so she can feel the pain? Anyway I have no idea what this is about... In the past this is the start of a recycle... .

[duncanville1]

After walking out again 2.5 weeks ago and going almost no contact the diagnosed exBPD gf started sending me emails last night when she was out with friends. The emails started as never contact me again, then she kept sending more. She keeps asking me to destroy her in our child custody suit she filed a week ago. This morning she says she is never happy with me and we cannot be together but I need a lawyer to fight her so she can feel the pain? Anyway I have no idea what this is about... In the past this is the start of a recycle... .

[Lucky Jim]

Hey Duncanville, Sounds like the usual push-me-pull-you that is typical for a pwBPD.  My suggestion is that you decline to participate in all the drama by keeping good boundaries and moving on, as hard as that may be right now.  Hang in there, Lucky Jim

[gallerykey]

I had a message earlier from my ex dwBPD and i know it was all just to get a reaction from me, and normally it would of,normally i would of gone back with some comment and it all would start again. As hard, and i mean really hard as it was i havenot replied. This was on whats app, i have now blocked him and im presuming he didnt like it and blocked me too but that makes it easier for me as i cant see his status comments etc... . hoping will be easier now.