goldbeme,
I'm glad you found us. How old is your daughter-in-law, and how long has she been with your son? Why can't you speak to them?
When a family member has BPD, the illness can negatively everyone in the family system, including children, siblings, and in-laws. Senior members on the
[L5] Coping and Healing from a BPD Parent, Sibling, or Inlaw board are experienced with and can help you with setting boundaries, finding relief from FOG, encouraging self-care, improving your handling of relationships impacted by your BPD relative, and pursuing a path of recovery from traumatic experiences. The validation, information, and support will give you strength on your journey.
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