Possible past diagnosis?

[Cipher13]

I was thinking last night about the possibility my wife had been diagnosed with BPD just after we got married and I went into the army. She was having sever separation anxiety. I thought I remember maybe something about Bipolar and Panic Anxiety with a goraphobia. BPD may have been mentioned at the time but I can't remeber as I had no idea what that was at the time.

Can there be any way to bring this up in a way that doesn't cause further problems or am I just causing a probelm I don't need to be causing? Either way I guess it won't help.

[Surnia]

Hi Cipher13

I can understand that you are longing for an affirmation through a diagnose.

I would let it drop however. Its difficult to receive 100% affirmation. You are posting here on Undecided. My guess is that you are assuming knowing her true? diagnosis would help you to decide?

[Cipher13]

The only way it would help is if it lead to her acknoledging maybe she needs to seek help.