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So I was good with limited to NC.
He showed up to yoga class. I thought I would be nice and sit by him to help ease the the air so to speak.
I asked to move to a different area as the man in front of us had body odor.
He flipped out, became angry and agitated and stormed out of the room " I'm leaving!"
I went and got him and asked if he heard what I said. "No I just thought you wanted me to move"
Again, the anger he possesses is amazing. So irrational.
Confirmed I made a good choice. Now to find a different yoga studio or class schedule.
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A small misunderstanding that escalates. I remember those. It was impossible to explain and communicate afterwards. Normal people would at least try to understand the situation. I just got the silent treatment.
Yes. we are better of without them.
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Quote from: huhhuh on October 07, 2013, 04:37:29 AM
A small misunderstanding that escalates. I remember those.
Yes, I could fill a book with small misunderstandings that would escalate. My favorite one is what I will call "the compliment". She would thank me for a compliment today, but exactly the same compliment tomorrow was often taken as an insult with an angry reaction.
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