She wheezes and can't catch her breath - which is doing damage to her lungs.
Here's the thing, it's not so black and white when it comes to this stuff.
It's the way that my ex-husband does not put sunscreen on my youngest because according to him he is half hispanic and doesn't need it. He is also half of me who is Scandanavian with a history of skin cancer in my family. I can fight him on it, summons doctors and the like to prove my rightness. Or I can figure out some other kind of way. Where we agree to disagree - but my son still gets sunscreen.
I tend to be a solution oriented person.
Your first solution - get the courts to give you full custody so you don't have to deal with this. That was a no go (correct?).
So we need to find an alternate solution to get your daughter taken care of here.
Some solutions off the top of my head:
1.) Talk to the ex using the communication skills offered here like the
DEARMAN technique 2.) Schedule an appointment with the Dr. with her dad present - maybe he's just not taking your word for it. The ex listens to Dr's a lot better then me (and vice versa).
3.) Get a doctors note stating it's importance - email him a copy and CC-ing key professionals (his attorney, yours, the GAL)
4.) Go to the practices/games with the inhaler
Any of those work? Any other solutions you can think of?
-DreamGirl
