nons that suffer medicals after BPD

[mitchell16]

after reading another post it made me wonder how many nons was suffering or are suffering medical issues while in the a relationship with BPD. Towards the end I was having sever anxieties, couldnt sleep, I have dropped about 2o pounds without even trying. about 3 weeks before teh finally end. I started feeling tired all the time, lost all sex drive, couldnt sleep more then 4 hours a night, started becoming moody. since moving into the mid forties I started keeping a watch om my testerone and my psa. I had my test. checked and found that it had dropped. Not just a little but like 3 times of what it was the year before I met my BPD.  But I can feel my old self coming back. I found it hard to beleive that a relationship could cause all of this to a person. But I have some medical documentation that i beleive it is proof. The year I met my BPD my testerone was that of a 25 year old, I felt good . no sleep problems, no weight issues. had better out look on life. two years laters my testerone has dropped 3 times less, I cant sleep at night, cant not put on weight,

anybody else notice these changes.

[Ironmanrises]

My sex drive... .

Died in devaluation.

Irritable bowl syndrome... .

Anxiety... .

Loss of appetite... .

All increased... .

In devaluation... .

As it progressed.

I had none... .

Of that... .

In idealization.

As soon... .

As she was triggered... .

I felt... .

It.

3.5 months into NC... .

Anxiety... .

IBS... .

Loss of appetite... .

Have disappeared.

Sex drive... .?

Unknown.

I havent been with anyone since.

[allweareisallweare]

Apart from the crushing mental effects, sure ... .physiologically we're crucified by these people - we may never inflict it back and return fire - they are sure to ruin their own lives and 'die by their own hand' metaphorically anyway, so we must steal away, rescue what we can and save ourselves for someone else who is sure to love us

[Waifed]

after reading another post it made me wonder how many nons was suffering or are suffering medical issues while in the a relationship with BPD. Towards the end I was having sever anxieties, couldnt sleep, I have dropped about 2o pounds without even trying. about 3 weeks before teh finally end. I started feeling tired all the time, lost all sex drive, couldnt sleep more then 4 hours a night, started becoming moody. since moving into the mid forties I started keeping a watch om my testerone and my psa. I had my test. checked and found that it had dropped. Not just a little but like 3 times of what it was the year before I met my BPD.  But I can feel my old self coming back. I found it hard to beleive that a relationship could cause all of this to a person. But I have some medical documentation that i beleive it is proof. The year I met my BPD my testerone was that of a 25 year old, I felt good . no sleep problems, no weight issues. had better out look on life. two years laters my testerone has dropped 3 times less, I cant sleep at night, cant not put on weight,

anybody else notice these changes.

This is me almost to a "tee". I also suffered from PE after I caught her cheating, something I never had an issue with before.