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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« Reply #30 on: November 01, 2013, 05:40:00 PM »

but whenever i see someone posting that they want to text or tell their ex how much they still love them (even though it's true and i felt the same way  Smiling (click to insert in post)), i want to yell "NOO my friend!" love is *not* what this person wants (or needs) from you right now...

hmmm. I was just thinking about this... .could what they really need or want from us is "self-love"? They respect that... .as much as they try and fight it. But its the one thing they don't have.  Personally, I admire people who can stand up for themselves, and I would feel very safe dating someone who has a lot of it - contrary to how it feels dating a borderline 
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The crumbs of love that you offer me, they're the crumbs I've left behind. - L. Cohen
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« Reply #31 on: November 01, 2013, 06:26:40 PM »

hmmm. I was just thinking about this... .could what they really need or want from us is "self-love"? They respect that... .as much as they try and fight it. But its the one thing they don't have.  Personally, I admire people who can stand up for themselves, and I would feel very safe dating someone who has a lot of it - contrary to how it feels dating a borderline 

what a beautiful insight! i agree  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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