What happens when two of us end up dating?

[2pts]

Like two people who's last relationships were with pwBPD?

[willbegood]

The woman I'm seeing, her exH was, I believe, sociopath(?). I don't know exactly what she said he was or if she actually knew. From talking to her she's dealing with the same nonsense we all dealt with.

She has kids and when the exH hears she's dating someone he turns up the heat and does his best to make her life difficult. I'm yet to see this as we just started dating and taking things slow. But she did mention it and apparently it will be something that I will have to deal with.

Other than that, things have been outstanding! Communication is great. We both have a good understanding of what each other went through with our ex's.

The best part so far is when I say something which I thought maybe wasn't thought out enough or didn't come out quite right. With the exBPD I would've been in the dog house. Now it's not even an issue. The whole not walking on pins and needles is new again and great!