Latest Triangulation Attempt

[rehtorb70]

So we invited my (u?)BPDSis to a family function.  She e-mailed my W to say she would not be coming.  She said she was not coming because I think she has mental problems.

Fortunately, W has seen the evidence over the years so she knows better than to get sucked into the drama.

[Clearmind]

rehtorb70, do you and your wife have an understanding about communication with BPDsis?

[rehtorb70]

No we do not.  Why do you ask?

[Clearmind]

Its helpful that you are both on the same page as far as communication so drama does not ensue - especially if BPDsis is calling your wife and not you. It would be helpful that you both have the same boundaries over contact.

[rehtorb70]

Yes, good point.