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Well, while we are still living together while my husband looks for an apartment, this is my first weekend separated. He is at a friends wedding. I'm home on the sofa wondering how I ended-up here (separated and soon to divorce, not the sofa... .Ha ha). This sucks.
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hey,
I agree it totally does suck, the first while was really, really hard for me too but it does get easier
I remember thinking the same thing "what the heck just happened and how did I end up here"
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I relished those first few weeks. Not having to walk on eggshells and being able to relax felt soo good.
Try and enjoy it. Give yourself some you time. Take a bath. Pamper yourself. Try and enjoy the peace and use the quiet to process how you are feeling.
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Hey, its dificult and I feel how hard it must be for you. My weekends are crap, BUT, my freinds have returned since the cow has left. Re- make your life. coz this is all we have! Im heartbroken, but I will not give up.
Bright blessings.
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