I feel so blessed. So fortunate. Alone in my rooms.
i feel that pwBPD get way to much credit for being empathic, i just don't think this is true at all. i don't think they are too empathetic, rather they are over-emotional. i'm sure they can be empathetic when it suits their needs to bond and mirror people but my ex had absolutely no idea what or how i was feeling most of the time, which is why her accusations never made any sense. in fact i don't think they really know what anybody is really feeling (and neither do we of them) which is why the communication is so messed up. just because someone feels sh@#ty in and of themselves doesn't mean that they have some deeper understanding of how
others feel. sure my ex could get insanely emotional but this had to do with her, not with how others around her were feeling. if they really have so much empathy then why don't they feel how much others around truly cared about them (before this bridge may be burned)?
I would totally agree with this statement. Over emotional is more like it. My ex would cry at TV commercials, in movies, almost over everything. Don't get me wrong, crying over a sad movie or touching commercial is normal, and I have been known to cry at a touching moment as well. However, if the person you are with can show so much emotion in one second, yet then turn it off and become callous and cruel the next, there is something seriously wrong upstairs. Genuinely sensistive people are always aware of how others are feeling. They don't go out of their way to destroy someone like it seems a lot of BPDs do. Another thing I want to add is that with BPDs everything is SO INTENSE ALL THE TIME. Either they love you intensely or they hate you intensely. Either the relationship is so awesome and amazing, or it is the worst thing next to h*ll. Everything is in extremes... .never in any moderation. Just imagine what must go on in their psychotic little heads.
As long as they hate themselves no relationship will ever work for them. Either they find someone just as "damaged" or they continue sucking dry one victim after another and after a life time of cheating and hurting others, they wonder why they are alone, why people hate them, and their children wont have anything to do with them. Be glad you are not with her anymore, you dodged a serious bullet my friend. You have a future, she does not.
