Adult child

[Gidget]

 Hi,

I typed 2 already yet I can't find them or I don't know if they posted I have been having some trouble with this posting site

Child with BPD

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[peaceplease]

Gidget,


.  If you click your name, then click on last posts.  You will be able to see if they posted.  I know there have been times that I thought I posted, only to find that it wasn't there.  I think I thought I hit post, but I didn't.

I hope this helps.

welcome to the board.  I just read your intro. I have an adult daughter, age 29, with suspect BPD.  I was a single mom, too.  Re-married when she was 15, and she always blamed my remarriage for her behavior.  I left her dad when she was 10 months old, and he wasn't involved with my kids much.

Please keep in touch here.

peaceplease

[Gidget]

How about the get even rages. Trying to understand. I watched my grandchildren for my daughter for 5years. The last few weeks before school got out I asked her if she could put the kids the in daycare. They were in daycare 3days a week. I watched them full time for 2years that 3days a week for 2years then 2days per week the last year. I thought I would come under attack when I asked her if she could do this. She actually said ok I was shocked I didn't get screamed at. She did this for me. Then turned around and told everyone including me that she striped the kids from me because I was crazy. How do you handle this. I actually thought she understood. My husband and I were going thru some crazy times building our home at the time. I was either cursed and attacked or had lies made up about me. JUST SO SO HURT. I did everything I could for her from cleaning her house watching her children and this is how I was repaid.