Ok so I left a violent relationship and I am trying this no contact for half a year now. Fot two weeks I had peace and NC but now I got again those terrible messages:
three days ago it said I stil love you in capitals and something I may or may not understand as a threat. And now I got this mail "didn't you ever love me". Should I still not react? The strange thing is that I first seemed to have convinced him in to thinking that it was better not to have contact with me but now he is desperate again.
He always talks about suicide in december. Bercause then anopther year has passed without his situation getting better.
I am afraid. I do not know now what he is up to. Should I really not react?
Hi zkirtz-
I'm a little confused because you say you had no contact for half a year, but you had peace and NC for two weeks?
Anyway, your relationship ended for whatever reason, so he is no longer your problem. You can react if you want to, but the bigger question is why do you want to? If you are truly detached you would view his communication attempts with indifference, they wouldn't mean much to you beyond a little curiosity maybe, but him talking about suicide and you being afraid indicates you are still emotionally connected. You should do whatever you want to do, but look at your motivation compared to what you really want and need.