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« Reply #30 on: December 18, 2013, 03:49:56 AM »

There really isn't a defined time limit that FB has told anyone about but people have gone over two years and then re-activated their accounts.  When you re-activate you just need access to the email account that you signed up with. 
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« Reply #31 on: December 18, 2013, 09:06:54 AM »

Facebook is the evil.

Just to remind.

It still costs to me enough sometimes to resist from lurking... .but i deactivate everything... .and won't activate again.

This abstinance will pass too.


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« Reply #32 on: December 18, 2013, 02:23:09 PM »

Facebook is the evil.  Just to remind.  It still costs to me enough sometimes to resist from lurking... .but i deactivate everything... .and won't activate again. This abstinance will pass too.

thanx for the info HBB and MrFox.  i googled it and read an article abt it.  interesting,  FB gives 2 options:  Deactivate or Delete.  Nicco, plz know that deactivated is NOT deleted.  FB is pretty evil... .they make it very difficult to delete your acct.  and it looks like if you deactivate, the meer act of signing in might constitute REactivating (read that in an article, can't vouch for it ATM).  plus, god only knows what FB is doing w/your info while deactivated... .probably still selling it as well as tracking our whereabouts... .let alone how addictive FB can be and what a time suck, too.

so i guess if we're really truly done with FB, deleting would be the way to go, not deactivating.

here's an informative article in case anyone, hey OP  Smiling (click to insert in post), wants to delete:

6 Things to Do Before You Delete Your FB Account

www.mashable.com/2013/03/01/delete-your-facebook-account/
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« Reply #33 on: December 18, 2013, 02:57:54 PM »

Caved and checked my ex's FB big mistake. Picture of a Christmas tree in her apartment with the caption how excited she was for a wonderful holiday season! There was also a picture of other holiday related things.

I just don't understand how she can be so happy she got rid of me.

God, I am taking this poorly. I know she is not coming back. Part of me wants it but I know I could never take someone like this back.

The other woman has stopped talking to our mutual friends so it is clear they are in the "infatuation" stage. How nice to dump me a week before my birthday and spend the holidays in love... .in bliss.

I cannot believe I wasted my time on this piece of shi_.

Sick or not, no excuse.

I. Am. Better. Than. This!

Hey Earth Angel,

I made bold the quote that literally made me laugh out loud!

"God, I am taking this poorly."

For all of us here, that is the understatement of 2013.

We are the destroyed, the beheaded, the scapegoats of monsters.

"God, I am taking this poorly." Lol

You look after yourself! You are better than you know, you are feeling emotions they can only guess at.

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« Reply #34 on: December 18, 2013, 02:59:04 PM »

"God, I am taking this poorly."

You are precious, xx
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« Reply #35 on: December 18, 2013, 04:56:38 PM »

I don't just deactivate, I have a friend change my password so even if I want to go on, I cant. She'll give it back to me if I want it but I know then it has to be thought about for a while and it's not just a moment of weakness or insanity. Defriending doesn't work for me bc my exes page is basically public  and if I block him I can always just unblock if I want to look. Desperate times call for desparate measures. Or Maybe I'm just extra crazy  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post) it always works! I've taken a couple months off before and I never regret doing it!
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« Reply #36 on: December 18, 2013, 05:44:10 PM »

"God, I am taking this poorly."

For all of us here, that is the understatement of 2013.

We are the destroyed, the beheaded, the scapegoats of monsters.

Amen.
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