Clarity

[Pretty Woman]

You know, I was thinking... .

I just read another post on here about the reasons why our exes broke up with us. Some of them are so ridiculous, well most of them were. When I read them I had to laugh. It's not funny but very predictable. They will dump you over a paper cut, it's that simple.

Think about it. If someone is willing to leave you over something simple do you really need this person in your life? Do you really want to have a family with this person and have them leave you for another person on a whim?

And what about all the threats and fabrications? I am reading so much on here about child services being called and restraining orders.

My first boyfriend I was a bit stalky when he dumped me. I had an issue with letting go and he was my first. But he never filed a restraining order. In fact he emailed me for awhile until I left him alone.  Sometimes you need to just walk away without closure.

I took my ex back after restraining order threats.  This time she didn't threaten me but said never to contact her again... .she is gone from my life FOREVER. She will NEVER trust me EVER.

As we know Never and Ever are two words BPD's rarely mean. She has my replacement and she goes NC when that happens. This time she blocked me on everything... .for control.

I am not interested in getting this person back. I am actually grateful she has someone else to focus on.  This other person stabbed me in the back... .I thought we were friends.

It takes two to tango but this person is going to get karma.

In a BIG way. 

Betrayal is the worst part of this but it is part of the disorder.

I am better than this.  I do not need her to be diagnosed to see there is a method to her madness and a distinct pattern. I have freed myself from the web to make room for other victims... .

I hope none of you get stuck in her web!