4 weeks of cold treatment

[Bobbo]

Soon it's been 4 weeks since we broke up, and I've been getting the cold treatment and she won't even talk about trying to resolve our issues, we only communicate because of our little boy and I'm worried she might try to turn him against me.

She knows how I feel about her, that I love her and want to be with her, she's told me it doesn't change anything, I feel so desperate and heartbroken, I just want one more chance to be able to fix us and our family, but she is so stubborn and won't let me back in.

I don't know what answers I'm seeking on this board, I just feel pretty low and have no clue what to do, I'm trying to live normally but all I want is our family together, will she ever come back... .Who knows :-(

[Surnia]

I am really sorry, Bobbo. Not being anymore with your little family is not easy. I hear your desperation.

I would focus first on the communication regarding your son. To keep this running is in my eyes one important goal. I would not force her talking about your issues.

What you can do meanwhile is looking for some real life support. Do you have some good friends? Or supporting family members?