A word to the wise... .I am five years post divorce and still have legal dealings with my Ex over child-related stuff. This time its about child support. He has filed to pay NOTHING! And he is unemployed. So we are hiring an "employment expert" and I have been requested to provide all kinds of background info-- basically my Ex's school and employment history, etc. Would have been much easier to do if I had kept more of his old records that he left in the house--old resumes, etc. While I was careful to keep old financial stuff and all our legal stuff, I wish I had kept more of that junk.
Lessons learned: you are never legally done with an ExBPD until children are fully grown and independent.
Keep all papers--you never know what you might need.
Crystal
And if this isn't am option, surreptitiously copy or photograph you can before they move out... .
