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« on: December 23, 2013, 06:25:58 PM »
Yes, I got a text today from my dBPDxh "Tequila makes me want you and you make me want Tequila. Love you both". Coming from him it is sweet and funny.

For me, it is sad. I'm so sorry he chooses this path over getting therapy, recovery, and living a life with his family.

":)etachment leads to freedom" has been my mantra in my head lately. I've got to let go but it is so hard after almost 20 years, 2 kids. Hence why I am on this site 
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« Reply #1 on: December 23, 2013, 07:00:46 PM »
Quote from: dontknow2 on December 23, 2013, 06:25:58 PM
"Tequila makes me want you and you make me want Tequila. Love you both"

That would make me spit!
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GreenMango
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« Reply #2 on: December 23, 2013, 07:10:36 PM »
Oh Don't!

That's like the Kenny Chesney Grace Potter song "You and Tequila"... .make me crazy.

Happy Holidays and hang in there.
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« Reply #3 on: December 23, 2013, 07:30:48 PM »
Lovely.  That's what happens when someone takes a smartphone to a bar; in the old days it would have been a drunk dial.  You probably can't totally disconnect from him because you have kids, but those kinds of texts just made my ex look that much more ridiculous, so maybe that can help with detachment?
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« Reply #4 on: December 23, 2013, 07:41:44 PM »
Moonie75, Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Thanks to all for your support. It's nice to be understood and boosted. 

Yes, Happy Holidays     Here's to detachment!
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LilMissSunshine
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« Reply #5 on: December 23, 2013, 08:12:32 PM »
What a d**k.
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