Yes I would... .I might need more than one
I've got a brand-new bottle of Patron and two bottles of mixer, so we're in good shape.
Seriously, just trying to bring some levity to the mix, but you really may want to have a drink. I think this situation calls for it.
So can you tell he's on FB and just ignoring you? If so, that would really tick me off. I think these guys get some sort of sick pleasure out of disappearing or going off the grid and watching us chase them. That's the only thing I can figure to explain their stupid behavior, as if they have some sort of control in these situations that they don't have otherwise and they really get off on knowing that they've got us chasing after them and they've got us all worked up. I don't understand it because it seems ridiculous to me, but apparently this is the disorder of ridiculous.
So what happens if, say, he doesn't contact you all night tonight, and then you just go dark tomorrow and get on with your life and don't respond to him? Does he then freak out on you for ignoring him?
I've always just wondered how this looks for other people. Like, if my H calls and I'm busy working, on the other line with a client, whatever, and don't answer his call, he plays this stupid game where when I do try to call him back, he won't answer... .for hours. Or like when he disappears for weeks on ends, he won't take my calls, and in some cases got a new phone so I didn't have the number. He would call and I wouldn't recognize the number and wouldn't answer. When I listened to the voice mail and tried to call him back, he refused to pick up again because "I should answer when he calls."
I'm just wondering if yours is playing some version of this stupid game, too.
