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tee hee, pretty funny:
www.kellymarceau.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/sry.jpg
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www.kellymarceau.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/3ff268267bcf9c2d32ae3c0021869f81.jpg
this article is excellent actually. i'm still reading it. i think a good thing to read to get perspective on how we are lucky to be out of r/s with toxic people:
www.kellymarceau.com/what-sexy-consciously-awake-women-need-and-dont-want-from-men/
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still laughing!
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:0 cool i was hoping to spread some laughter i'm laughing too. this article has the best collection of little images. check this one out. something i've tried to put into words here about us nons bearing the responsibility of stopping the abuse by healing ourselves and not abusing people in our lives
www.kellymarceau.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/360e71be8c8828c176a4f6077ce0bfc7.jpg
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I'd just like to add a little comment to the last one, which said something on the lines of that love comes to those who still believe after being hurt... . We still believe in love, but not for the same person.
Moving on, baby! I shall love someone else!
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Frankly, it is them.
All of their relationships are guaranteed to fail because of their disorder.
Sure, we could have done things differently or better within the relationship, but ultimately it wouldn't have made a difference.
To put it bluntly, they just aren't capable of having a good relationship.
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Ohr goldy, I needed that today,was feeling a little low... .
His diaper runneth over... .
) thanks that article really gave me a boost:)
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