aha moment

[co.jo]

I was always reading about triangulating on here and thinking it didn't really apply to my situation as my daughter wasn't speaking to me anyway. This morning reading another post, I realized that is exactly what she has done, she is not in contact because apparently I have not done enough to get her siblings to accept her. There are the three points,me, her and the sibs, don't know how I missed it. Now I will have to research that, and see any suggestions.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[qcarolr]

Have you checked out the tool link to the right? It gives a really good definition and link to a workshop. Maybe you can figure out a way to be a positive influence in this triangle -- as long as you can keep taking care of yourself along the way.

qcr

[pessim-optimist]

... . don't know how I missed it. Now I will have to research that, and see any suggestions.

Good for you! Those moments are really rewarding - gaining more understanding gives us more to work with. Let us know what you think about your new findings, ok?