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mywifecrazy
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Picking myself off the canvas for the last time!
She is out of her mind
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January 14, 2014, 09:38:05 PM »
Can your BPDx spouse's behavior top this?
I was married to my uBPDxw for 18 years. This past Father's Day (2013) I caught her across the street in bed with our family best friend and husband of HER best friend. Turns out she helped her best friend cheat on her husband then she went after the husband! She abandoned me and our (2) sons. She agreed to a divorce and gave me full custody of kids (except every other weekend). Now she's across the street all the time with my neighbor and might even move in with him? What the heck she doesn't care that the kids knows she's there and are hurt because she doesn't see them. I'm now finding out that she chested on me throughout my marriage. Thank GOD she was so impulsive to get out once I FINALLY caught her because I got off easy in divorce, only cost me a few bucks in refinance money. She'll blow through that money in 2 years.
I found out that she was telling the neighbor that I beat her and my kids and raped her. My neighbor must be an idiot because in one breathe she told him I beat the kids but then she gives me full custody!
I think I'm going to buy my neighbor a Thank You card for taking that nut job off my hands. I should also probably get him a SYMPATHY card while I'm at it because he's gonna need it!
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And Jesus wept!
F***ing the neighbors is cheap & desperate!
If anyone here met there ex that way I'm sorry, but that's what you were when you bedded a neighbor!
I was replaced by a neighbor too (that's why i'm permitting myself to be so judgmental of it).
It stinks big time & it's in your face, and your children too!
Unbelievable! Stay strong man.
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Holy crap mywife.
I didnt marry my xdBPDgf. Your x takes the cake as far as my experience with mine goes. yea he's definitely going to need both cards. Lol
any one who gets away from a pbder has won the war... .
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And I don't mean 'cheap' because you don't need to run the car to go f**k a neighbor!
The other 'cheap' is what I meant, the dirty one!
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