Female friend from school..

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I have a female friend all the way from junior high, that I just started talking to on facebook, just catching up on each other lives, and she said something, that made me wonder if she could have BPD traits.  She told me about I guy she was dating for a couple years, and she loved him, but they broke up, and I asked her would she take him back if he changed and she said no, because I am happy now.  I said who is the new guy, she said he has always been around and they dated off and on, but she wants to be with him now, because she said I put him through so much, and dated others, and he stayed in my life, and he always came back, so he must love me, and it dawned on me, is my friend I knew in childhood, and haven't spoke with in years BPD?

[eclectic]

I have a female friend all the way from junior high, that I just started talking to on facebook, just catching up on each other lives, and she said something, that made me wonder if she could have BPD traits.  She told me about I guy she was dating for a couple years, and she loved him, but they broke up, and I asked her would she take him back if he changed and she said no, because I am happy now.  I said who is the new guy, she said he has always been around and they dated off and on, but she wants to be with him now, because she said I put him through so much, and dated others, and he stayed in my life, and he always came back, so he must love me, and it dawned on me, is my friend I knew in childhood, and haven't spoke with in years BPD?

[santa]

Sounds like she found a good lap dog that she can control and lead around by the nose forever. Poor ass.

[eclectic]

Sounds like she found a good lap dog that she can control and lead around by the nose forever. Poor ass.

That too, but he keeps coming back, he must love me, is what stood out to me, a lot of them really have that belief, don't they?

[myself]

keeps coming back, must love me

a lot of them really have that belief, don't they?

I had that belief. I don't have BPD.

Many of us who recycled felt that way.

[shellsh0cked]

keeps coming back, must love me

a lot of them really have that belief, don't they?

I had that belief. I don't have BPD.

Many of us who recycled felt that way.

Yep... . powerful little creatures they are.  I doubt there is a single one of us here that just put up with it for years without a breakup and didn't go back... . "well that b#tch is just crazy!"... .