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I am irreplaceable.
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I am irreplaceable.
I am unique.
I am no one else.
I am my self.
No one can take that away from me.
I have to give it away.
I choose to keep my self.
I have qualities, interests, skills, and aspirations that no one else does.
I feel no better or worse than anyone else for having my own particular set of qualities, interests, skills, and aspirations.
Rather, it's not so bad being me.
Someone on this planet very well may enjoy my company very much, and even perhaps treasure it.
I'm going to seek out that person instead of trying to control everything. Instead of waiting.
If Daisy is truly that person, she'll find me, or I'll find her, at the right point, and it will feel right.
I will not forsake my feelings any longer.
I have them.
They are real.
I honor my feelings.
I bless them for being and allow them to wash over my body.
In serenity,
Phoenix
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I am proud of you.
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Beautiful!
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Re: I am Irreplacable.
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That's awesome! There are a few billion women on the planet. Surely there is at least one out there that is a better fit, and a better person.
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Lots of life to live.
Lots of love to give.
You are on the right path. Break those chains of shame!
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Beautiful! Wonderful! I Love this!
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