I haven't been on here for a while which I guess is a good thing. The short version of my story is that I haven't heard from my uBPDexboyfriend since I told him I was pregnant.
My son is now 7 months and whilst it's definitely hard work raising him alone I feel like I'm doing a good job.
I guess my problem is the hurt that still remains. Today I looked on his social media (not something that I do often) and saw that he has had a girlfriend for the past six months. He moved overseas and from the looks of it isn't in a rush to move back. And honestly, that works out for me- I love the fact that I get to have my son all the time. But it hurts that he can just move on with his life like that. I feel like there's quite a way to go before I am ready to date, let alone being intimate with someone and he can so easily move on. I don't think my ex will ever change- I don't fear that he will turn into some amazing partner for someone else, it just hurts that I am long forgotten and he could walk away from his son so easily.
Anyway, it has been cathartic to write this and thank you if you read this