You were heaven sent, Cheshire.
Between a blog post about double binds, and Gail's thoughts about what I just went through this past year, very very timely stuff. Thank you.
This is the one that said it all for me - enablers who were converts at the very end, who were *your* best friend for over 30 years suddenly swallowing the collective enablers' manipulative complaints - yes, lots of good stuff in here and as a flight manual for any of you out there who will face this same dilemma as NC adult children... . or LC... . or MC... .
www.echorecovery.blogspot.com/search/label/Grieving%20Narcissistic%20Mother%27s%20Deaththank you again.