Strange calls

[Dolly rocker]

So it's been nearly a month since he last called and texted.

Then today he rang twice. I didn't answer as I want to keep NC.

Then I realised he left a voicemail. But when I listened to it, music was all I that could hear in the background.

Now I'm wondering if he called me by mistake.

Just to clarify I have no intentions to call him back or anything but I must admit that his desperation to get back to me makes me stronger!

[mitchell16]

mine used to to do this. I suspected it was a way to get me to contact her and that why I didnt reject her cause she didnt say or ask anything. and if i called her back angry and told her once again not to be contacting me she could just claim it was an accidental call. I used to get those at very odd hours in the night. It was just be music or tv noise.

[Dolly rocker]

You're so right Mitchell!

It could be a catch. They are so clever.

Well he's Defo not getting any replies or calls from me!

[Dolly rocker]

He just called back again! Don't think it was an "accidental call"

[mitchell16]

well if it anything like mine, it will esculate from here. when It started with mine and ignored her it just got worse and then the threating text message would come thru.

[Dolly rocker]

He used to say to me over and over: "ignoring is the worst thing you can do to me"

[willy45]

Don't answer. Read my extraordinarly long post. There is nothing there. Same old person. Mine has been calling me and texting me randomly for over a year and half. I got my dates mixed up... . I thought it was only a year. It has been way longer. Ignore.

I was in a place where I would get a text or call or an email and I would just look at it and say: I don't want to deal with this. And I would ignore. I made the mistake of answering once. And my world collapsed. So, don't do it. Good for you for ignoring. Keep up the good work!

[Dolly rocker]

Thanks Willy45!

This morning I got a txt at 5:20 AM, asking if I was up! As if I would be at this time of the morning.

I must confess that part of me worries if he's in trouble or ill but part if me thinks he's not my responsibility anymore. And yes, I've had such a peaceful couple of months! I don't need my world collapsing again! I'm definitely stronger!