Well I work with her dad and she lives with my friends. Everyday the past month has been literally like living in hell. I would never consider talking to her ever again at this point. I suspected this but I kinda wished she just went away and that was it. To see it in reality is just crushing. The friends that she lives with are actually friends she met through me. Pretty much everyone she knows is my friend. She was a hermit and had no friends. I just hope at this point she just moves in with the guy and stays out of my life. Two weeks ago she showed up at my house at 3am all bloody and said she punched a mirror. It was an attempt to recycle but I stayed strong. I was just over there a week ago. She has been seeing this guy for quite some time now as far as I can see. I just hope he doesn't see her crazy and invites her to live with him but he seemed like a total scumbag.
I'm sorry, Confused. This is difficult, especially with the family/friends. I hope you are able to draw boundaries without being dragged into drama triangles. I found it difficult when I was pegged as a persecutor, but I learned the hard way that we can protect ourselves by not engaging (not as punishment to the other, but as protection for ourselves.
Do you have an outlet in therapist?
