Completely over her, but I'm totally done with the remaining effects

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

In short: we broke up late 2012 from a r/s of 10 years. Her choice, not mine. Half 2013 I realised this was the best way and since then I'm doing very good.

Having fun in my life, meeting nice people, growing since 10 years. The only negative thing in my life is my ex-wife.

Because of that I wanted to end the divorce quickly. I tried to settle to not have to go through years of lawsuits. I proposed a deal no judge is going to give her, that good. She refused and wanted to go to court.

Court ordered us to negotiate. Again I tried my best (giving her everything I can).

But... . she keeps asking more. I'm so tired of it... . I know if I say yes, she asks for more. I know if I say no, I will be in court again and again and again... .

I'm doing okay without her, but she's is still 'around', making my life hell.

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In short: we broke up late 2012 from a r/s of 10 years. Her choice, not mine. Half 2013 I realised this was the best way and since then I'm doing very good.

Having fun in my life, meeting nice people, growing since 10 years. The only negative thing in my life is my ex-wife.

Because of that I wanted to end the divorce quickly. I tried to settle to not have to go through years of lawsuits. I proposed a deal no judge is going to give her, that good. She refused and wanted to go to court.

Court ordered us to negotiate. Again I tried my best (giving her everything I can).

But... . she keeps asking more. I'm so tired of it... . I know if I say yes, she asks for more. I know if I say no, I will be in court again and again and again... .

I'm doing okay without her, but she's is still 'around', making my life hell.