"And so your back, from outerspace... "

[Billa]

They ALWAYS come back. But sometimes they ALSO go back. And I'm proud of myself, even if it was very hard for me. (naturally, he came back after four months of NC from our last breaking up, trying to force me to accept HIS conditions... . ) :-)

[drv3006]

I got to ask.  Accept his "condition"  as in I have an illness and I am gettting help and awilling to try.  And I am beginning to understand this mental illness has to be first dealt with by me before I place it on everyone else.   

Or, accept his condition as in. 

"This is all your fault and all you have to do to get this relationship to work is to understand I had a terrible childhoold, so if I call you names, blame you for everything wrong that has happened  or will happen in my life you just take it and accept that I am sick and get to do whatever I want.  Now open wide  while I shovel it in.  And for got sake, spend all your time with me.  Accept that until I want to split please.   But I will be back. Acccept that.

I am sorry I get a little bitter.  But I had to ask.

[Billa]

accepts his conditions in order to agree to be recycled according to the rules he has chosen. That it so to say: I'm the boss, you have to be always nice and supporting, but I don't have to be the same with you. Then, you must show you believe always what I say and you must pretend you don't know you're not the one. If I tell you she's a friend, she's a friend even if you find her nake in our bed. As a matter of fact,  I can ask, you can't, I can blame you for everything, you can't tell me what you feel. I can leave you whenever I want, you won't dare leave me again. You stay in your hometown, waiting for me to decide when we can meet, while I live my life normally (well, "normally" ... . ).

I hope this is the answer you were asking for (sorry, but English is not my first language). If not, my past interventions on the board will help you to understand whay I'm now so proud of myself   (it's a long long story... . ).

[drv3006]

No apologies!  I got what you were saying.  i was just kind poking fun at the entire BPDs concept on what we need to accept in a relationship with them.  Your english is fine.  Mine and my typing on the other hand is nothing to brag over.  ha.    Hope you have a good weekend.