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refusetosuccumb
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Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
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May 04, 2014, 07:31:02 PM »
I have a few that give me the courage to keep moving post r/s.
Inner Ninja by Classified.
Just give me a Reason by Pink. "We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again"
What Doesnt Kill you makes you Stronger by Kelly Clarkson ":)oesnt mean that I lonely 'cause Im alone"
I will Survive by Gloria Gaynor
Whenever these are played I feel a renewed sense of"I can DO this"
What are some songs that speak to you?
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Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
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May 04, 2014, 08:42:07 PM »
The Supremes - You keep me hanging on
Not only is it a timeless, epic pop song but the lyrics are so very applicable to a lot of peoples situations on here.
Heck I'll even give you a youtube link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3bjMtqpGBw
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mrgasket
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May 04, 2014, 08:50:02 PM »
Yes! MUSIC!
Collective Soul – Precious Declaration
10Years-So Long,Goodbye
Taproot-The Calling
Trapt- Black Rose (this one is softer)
Earshot-Wait ( love the breakdown "I, I'm not waiting here this time"
Earshot-Someone
Cold- Suffocate ( reminds me of push/pull)
A Perfect Circle- 3 Libras (this is probably my #1)
A Perfect Circle- Sleeping Beauty
Theory of a Deadman- Any Other Way ( best suited for the anger stage I feel)
10Years-Just Can't Win
Evans Blue-My Damsel: A Confession To An Adversary ( this one is my #2)
Ok I am going to stop now... . I LIKE music
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Picking myself off the canvas for the last time!
Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
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Praise You in this Storm-Casting Crowns
You are who you are no matter where I am. Every tear I've cried you held in your hand. And though my heart is torn I will praise you in this storm.
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The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all. (Psalm 34:18, 19)
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May 05, 2014, 02:14:32 AM »
Staind outside
staind its been a while
a perfect circle the outsider
Most of nine inch nails early stuff
and if your thinking of recycling again henry rollins liar
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Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
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Quote from: neverloveagain on May 05, 2014, 02:14:32 AM
Staind outside
staind its been a while
a perfect circle the outsider
Most of nine inch nails early stuff
and if your thinking of recycling again henry rollins liar
Wow... . you are so on the money accurate with Henry Rollins "Liar" as a recycling defense. I'm gonna watch that video now and try not to think of my liar ex. Cool video.
Peace,
AO
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Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
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May 05, 2014, 03:21:03 AM »
The Bohicas- XXX and swarm
( caution may trigger,puts fire in the ol belly though:)
Dangermouse,Daniel Luppi feat Jack White-
2 against one...
" I get the feeling that its 2 against 1
Im already fighting me,so whats another 1"
" the mirror is a trigger and your mouths a gun,lucky for me im not the only one"
Billy Joel- second wind
Works everytime... .
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Hey ao yea the liar vid is good it reminds me not to put the rose tinted glasses on when i think about my exBPDgf and the truth behind her ways with me. Hope it helps some people here too.
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@mrgasket 3 libras, thats ones on my list of " instant heart shredders" list,heartbreakingly beautifullly sad.
Cold war kids- miracle mile
Dancin in the livin room like a maniac:)
Nuff said
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May 05, 2014, 07:15:37 AM »
Katy Perry / Part of Me
Limp Bizcut / Break Stuff
Capital Cities / Safe and Sound
Timbaland / Apologize
Bryan Adams / Love a Woman
I don't have a 'crybaby' play list; you know, the play list that every song makes you cry.
I have a play list that reminds me of when I was young and free, and a 'dancin queen'.
I have a play list that helps me get out that aggression (Disturbed, Korn/Skrillex, Metallica)
I have a play list that makes me smile 'that' smile (Marvin Gaye/George Michael/Toni Braxton)
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May 05, 2014, 09:19:59 AM »
"Best Thing I Never Had" - Beyonce! I think I've listened to that song about 100 times over the past couple weeks!
"Problem" - Ariana Grande
"Wide Awake" Katy Perry
"Blow Me (One Last Kiss)" - Pink
"Over You" - Daughtry
"We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" - Taylor Swift
"Bye Bye Bye" - NSYNC
I know some of these are really bubblegum pop, BUT the lyrics are so perfect!
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Quote from: neverloveagain on May 05, 2014, 05:17:18 AM
Hey ao yea the liar vid is good it reminds me not to put the rose tinted glasses on when i think about my exBPDgf and the truth behind her ways with me. Hope it helps some people here too.
The 3:40 - 3:50 nun into the devil transformation is intense and hilarious.
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Therapy get your dead hand off my shoulder
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Katy Perry - HOT N COLD
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May 06, 2014, 06:06:41 PM »
My ex BPDgf favourite song she used to play it to me all the time never listened to it properly she always used to play songs that would speak for her without saying a word. Should of listened more Radio head backdrifts.
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May 06, 2014, 08:22:14 PM »
"Under my thumb"... . Stones
"I hate myself for loving you"... . Joan Jett
"You Must Be Out Of Your Mind"... . Magnetic Fields ( love this one, its perfect)
" Best of you" Foo Fighters ( read the lyrics... . awesome)
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Baz lurman wear sunscreen
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