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I am proud for being strong and having control and respect for myself by staying away from this toxic person that I was married to. Today marks 9 months of NC. This is the big "Niner".
I think I'll pick out a good song to play now. Let's see... . I need a groovy tune to listen to for this celebration. I think I'll play Prince's "1999" to go back to the good ole days of before I ever had the misfortune to meet my ex.
I raise my wine glass into the air now to you good people... . "To The Big Niner!"... . Cheers... . Clang... . I clang my wine glass against my computer screen to you all. BTW hope no wine got down in the keyboard. That would really suck.
Peace,
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Congratulations, that is quite a milestone! You have certainly earned that glass of wine.
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Prince rules.
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Awww this post made me smile!
I can feel your happiness!
Good on ya!
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Prince rules.
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