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uBPDh saw me reading a book, I think it was Stop Walking on Eggshells. I was trying to hide it, but he saw it. He was furious, of course. Then he started reading it and said I was the one who had a disorder. He would point things out and say, You do that, You do this... . Also he accused me of readin up on abusers and the clinical names of disorders so I could fabricate lies about him.
Yes, there is a name, and we have a workshop on it.
BPD BEHAVIORS: Projection What to do? Don't engage on this sort of topic--nothing good comes of it.
He may figure out what he's doing and stop it, but likely not soon. It is NOT your job to convince him of a reality different than one he thinks he is living in.
It is your job to believe your own reality--you know what you are doing and what he is doing. Don't let his mental distortions convince you otherwise.
