So I have been with my dBPDgf for the last five years. These years have been bumpy/rocky to say the least. It seems the relationship is deteriorating more and and more. When it should be getting stronger throughout the years.
From everything I've read on these boards, it usually gets worse not better.
Well while I was cleaning her Ipod was On and I was going to cut it off so the battery wouldn't die. She had left up a chat with her friend talking about her X that she had seen the previous weekend.
This is what it said:
I totally understand you reading the chat. Snooping is the only thing that has kept me somewhat sane this year. The only way to get to the truth. It must have been so hurtful to read those things. She is clearly idealizing her ex. She sounds obsessed with her.
Ok back to Mothers day. She was mad that I didn’t go so of course that turned into an argument and she said we need time apart. So I said what does that mean…she said for me to date etc... I told her no. She says we are broken up…
I think it is pretty obvious that the whole Mother's Day thing is just an excuse. If it wasn't this it would have been something else. She is hoping to get back together with her ex. That's why she wants you out the way.
So should I call her bluff and say ok we are broken up. YOU pay your half the bills etc and we will be like roommates then? Because right now I am footing the bill for everything.
I really don’t know if I want to continue in this crazy relationship anymore.
Seh, I can't see how you can move on while still living under the same roof with her and paying her bills. In typical BP style this gal wants her cake and eat it too. It's up to you whether or not she does.