They will try to trigger you to get attention from you in any way they can, even if by making you feel mad, scared, guilty, or confused.
I definitely agree and this is what he is doing now. He is being secretive with his phone. Tonight he has gone out drinking & to track. I asked what time he'll be home and was told "no idea" before he might be able to push and I might give in but now my daughter is too important. I'd rather hang with her then go out.