leaving doors open..

[hurting300]

Do most people with BPD, (leave doors open) after they breakup? Like mine moved out while I was at work, she changed her number and deactivated her Facebook. Not a word for four months now. But she left things here she could have easily taken. Now she has been driving by my house. Kinda like stalking. How do I work thru this?

[mitchell16]

yes they do. What ive found and this is my expereince with mine was she always left just a little recycle room. Just in case. Ive been told on here and I believe it, that closure will only come from you. on every break up we have had she always said something that would imply she would be back or we would get back togther and sure enough after about 3 weeks or so she would pop back up on the radar with some faboulus story of why we broke up. she was stressed over work, she was stressed over some issue, she needed to find herself in 3 weeks etc... .

[hurting300]

Yeah man . It's weird. She made my lunch and told me she loved me the day she left.  I've read stories on here where they have came back after a year!