Could be a recycle attempt. Could be just the beginning of a recycle attempt.
Either way, she got what she wanted... .to know that you still want her, miss her, and pine away after her. That is what it's really all about. Same with her talking about other guys to a friend with you in earshot. I think you are right to think that was probably intentional.
Just remember that "no contact" is for you, so that you can become stabilized and stronger. If that is what you need to do, then yes... .do it.
Yeah i guess that's it... .
And yeah i will go no contact, the last time i did it it made me happy, but i got sucked back in. This time hopefully no contact for good... .