It's over. I survived.

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

Final judgement: I get to keep my house.

I was amazed she had yet more lies, more blaming.

What reality was she living in, if any?

The judge's decision is largely based on the "credibility and demeanor" of the parties.

I guess he saw right through her.

Home was purchased with non-marital inheritance

and although I put her on the deed, she left me.

My lawyer prepared me well.

Splitting is a great resource.

Weekly therapy.

Temperance.

DBT,

and everybody here at dbpfamily.com,

thanks for being here and helping me understand

and survive divorcing someone with this very serious mental disorder.

[oblivian2013]

Final judgement: I get to keep my house.

I was amazed she had yet more lies, more blaming.

What reality was she living in, if any?

The judge's decision is largely based on the "credibility and demeanor" of the parties.

I guess he saw right through her.

Home was purchased with non-marital inheritance

and although I put her on the deed, she left me.

My lawyer prepared me well.

Splitting is a great resource.

Weekly therapy.

Temperance.

DBT,

and everybody here at dbpfamily.com,

thanks for being here and helping me understand

and survive divorcing someone with this very serious mental disorder.

[maxen]

fabulous news, oblivian, congratulations.

[catnap]

Happy for you that it all went very, very well.

[momtara]

Sometimes family court is sane. Wow.

[Landslide2014]

That is for the morning inspiration. I feel the relief in your words. You deserve it!

[birdlady]

Congrats.  Every once in a while, there is some sanity in the courts.

[sanemom]

Love it when the system works right... .just refreshing.

Enjoy and breathe!

[scraps66]

Congrats!  We need far more of these stories to celebrate.