Disclaimer, I am not a religious person nor do I promote religion. I found this text on bipolar disorder forum and I think it also applies to pwBPD ex partners. I did not write that text and the credit goes to its author. I have replace the word «God» with Higher power in respect of people's different faiths on this board.
Dear Son,
Because ****** has an illness, I must bring people to her. I will never take anyone from her, because until she acknowledges the impact of her illness, she will always cause them to leave or will leave them. She hasn't truly accepted this yet. She is just beginning to see the pattern. She will continue to seek people to meet her needs and she really only needs to stay close to me, take her medicine and put forth an effort to a normal life. I did not bring her into your life to punish you, but for you to help her and to show her this.
I had you look after her during this time in her life. You were chosen for your giving qualities and unconditional love. You were the Saint I sent to look after her. You did not place any demands on her other than to take her medications and get rid of her addictions. She will see this one day. She will see that if she accepts her illness, then the loving people in her life will stay in her life. She will see the mania is bad for her.
I am so very sorry for the pain you are in. Please rest it upon me. I know it hurts. I know it seems unbearable, but I would not have chosen you if I did not think you could handle it. Thank you for taking care of her. She is very precious to me. Please continue to better yourself and improve yourself and walk with me. You need to let her go and focus on your life - as this is my plan for you. I have provided you with the gifts and the basis to get back on track. Now focus on your work and improving yourself.
Place her in my hands, and I will take care of her and keep her safe.
Love,
Your Higher Power
