For me this is the thing that makes the least amount of sense in all of their crazy. To lie as much and as often and to as many parties involved just seems exhausting. For instance while my exBPDgf was lying about another guy, she would lie about everything. Who she was with, who she was texting, what she was doing in general. All this while lying to the guy she was with and her parents and her "friends". To me it seems totally unreasonable to actually try to become such a good liar instead of taking any responsibility or action towards getting help.
I understand why they lie but the extremes they go just don't make sense to me. Probably never will. Nc for close to a month and doing a lot better. Working on myself and feeling good. The lying thing is something that I really can't comprehend tho. It just seems impossible to lie that much
