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« on: September 29, 2014, 07:49:55 AM »

Im still so damn numb and in disbelief that they can go to a relationship so damn quick! One day after dumping me... .Im so scared of the whole recycling bit, especially as she is my sons coach. I dont know what to do. I really dont.
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« Reply #1 on: September 29, 2014, 07:57:46 AM »

They never fail to amaze me. Their survival instinct is so strong that they do whatever they have to. I just had a message from my exgf who is moving out of my house tomorrow asking if she can HAVE my cooker and sofa. I believe she has a new supply as she went away over night this weekend yet she still feels that she can ask this of me. Thye really have no empathy at times.
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« Reply #2 on: September 29, 2014, 08:08:13 AM »

They never fail to amaze me. Their survival instinct is so strong that they do whatever they have to. I just had a message from my exgf who is moving out of my house tomorrow asking if she can HAVE my cooker and sofa. I believe she has a new supply as she went away over night this weekend yet she still feels that she can ask this of me. Thye really have no empathy at times.

it's all about them, their wants, their needs, their disorder... Mine owes me $1500 that she won't pay, and still wants anything and everything from our house that she contributed financially too, never mind I completely supported her for the past 12 months
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« Reply #3 on: September 29, 2014, 08:27:09 AM »

Never moved in with mine. We are both divorced, of course she wasnt went we met. had no job either. Single mother of 5 kids, had her own house and I had mine. Together for a year and a half. Was going to marry her too. I was going to surprise her on her birthday (1 October)but first week of September I got the you never want to see me, you dont treat me special cuz if you dont, you'll lose me. I went dark after hearing that crap so much. Didnt say a word to her for a week. When I did, she dumped me and next day on to guy number 2. Wow. My BS meter was so pegged after hearing it so often every time I tried to spend time with my kids or do my stuff with my friends or around the house, I snapped and just needed to figure it out. She did it for me... .jeez

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« Reply #4 on: September 29, 2014, 08:30:18 AM »

Never moved in with mine. We are both divorced, of course she wasnt went we met. had no job either. Single mother of 5 kids, had her own house and I had mine. Together for a year and a half. Was going to marry her too. I was going to surprise her on her birthday (1 October)but first week of September I got the you never want to see me, you dont treat me special cuz if you dont, you'll lose me. I went dark after hearing that crap so much. Didnt say a word to her for a week. When I did, she dumped me and next day on to guy number 2. Wow. My BS meter was so pegged after hearing it so often every time I tried to spend time with my kids or do my stuff with my friends or around the house, I snapped and just needed to figure it out. She did it for me... .jeez

That is the strangest part... .Mine was pushing hard to for a ring, I dragged my feet, which pissed her off and she said she was done pushing me... .I was like ok, then she quickly left
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