To those who broke N/C...

[Algae]

To those who broke N/C and got painted white,

... who was the first to break N/C?  You, or your BPDex?

[Infern0]

The ex broke.

You can't paint yourself white it happens when it happens

[bunnysc]

I broke NC the first time, cause I saw a pic of her and the replacement on a Email I did for her when we where together... .I was pissed and basically sent her to hell by phone... .Totally stupid to do but I couldn't control myself... .Heck I didn't even knew much about BPD.

2 months later she sent me a text saying hi and asking me how the dog we rescued together was doing What the heck? Off course I am taking care of the dog cause she is to busy killing someone else little by little... I stayed NC... .

And I will stay NC!

[jayboy336]

     It really all depends. In all of the recycles I had with my exBPDgf, sometimes I broke NC. Sometimes she did. In a way, its almost like a game to them sometimes. To see who will do it first. Who will cave in. If you break NC first, it gives them power and they will use it.