I'm leaving town.

Infern0

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I'm leaving town.

« on: October 22, 2014, 11:45:52 PM »

Haha.

Well I guess life threw me a rope today, got a job offer from a great company, the only issue. ... .it's 7 hours away from BPD girl!

Fantastic news and I accepted the offer. I've had my fill of BPD girl, she's still playing baby games with me and I'm over it.

The only problem is its a January start so I have to hang round here for 3 months and put up with the drive by's and all the rest of it but oh well.

I'm not telling a soul either, imagining her reaction when one day I just vanish without a trace gives me a smile.

I've done all I could to help her, she doesn't want it, she can't accept the fact that she's mental, I can't do anything for her anymore.

Roll on January and let's hope she stays content with "manipulating" me from a distance until I pull a houdini on her.


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fromheeltoheal

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Re: I'm leaving town.

« Reply #1 on: October 22, 2014, 11:52:46 PM »

Good news inferno. I moved hundreds of miles from mine, which really helped, although she'd moved into my head and took a while to move out, but the lack of ongoing 'input' really helped. Congrats on the job too!


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Rifka

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Re: I'm leaving town.

« Reply #2 on: October 23, 2014, 12:08:38 AM »

Yay! Sounds like a plan!


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Chasing_Ghosts

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Re: I'm leaving town.

« Reply #3 on: October 25, 2014, 02:41:53 AM »

Congratulations, mate!

Life has a way of blessing those of us who struggle and use it for growth instead of stagnancy like our exs.

Im finally back to my senses and if im lucky mine will move states away back home like she feels she should!

Theres can never be enough distance between a former partner and BPD ex that's for sure!

The Houdini moment will be priceless!

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inthenow

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Re: I'm leaving town.

« Reply #4 on: October 25, 2014, 06:10:45 AM »

well done!

I've moved physically further away and it is a relief.

Let someone else deal with it!


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going places

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Re: I'm leaving town.

« Reply #5 on: October 25, 2014, 07:24:58 AM »

This is AMAZING good news!

Don't be 'tempted' to let her know you are leaving when you are angry... .

And once you move, block her from everything.

I am so happy for you getting a new start!

I plan to move about 20 hours away from where I am now... .so I am glad to see I am not the only one!

Happy life! HAPPY LIFE!


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Hurtbeyondrepair27

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Re: I'm leaving town.

« Reply #6 on: October 25, 2014, 10:27:08 AM »

I wish i could move! HAPPY FOR YOU!


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Bak86

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Re: I'm leaving town.

« Reply #7 on: October 25, 2014, 12:29:08 PM »

Awesome news!


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