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I just felt myself again for the first time
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Its been 11 months since my breakup, and literally just now I had sort of an epiphany, I felt how I used to feel before I met her, I became myself again, I hope it stays, I don't know why it came, but it was a very clear and strong feeling because I hadn't felt it for so long.
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Has to come back one day, right?
Glad to hear that! I know this feeling. Actually fell in love with me.
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Yes! It takes a while for our selves to emerge again, and the feeling you got will help you remember who you are, and it will build. Enjoy that! When I started to feel me again I also became very grateful for it and life in general; nothing like taking something away and getting it back to realize how much we missed it and value it.
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Really like this positive post. Congratulations, and thank you.
Detachment isn't just about letting go of someone else.
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Thank you for sharing that! That gives me hope in this confusing darkness!
Its been four month since my break up and I´m still thinking about what happened and wondering if this ever gonna end!
Thanks!
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