Maybe I'm in the minority here... .as much as I "hate" the idea that she probably already got naked with some other dude, I'm also secretly hoping that maybe this new guy is the guy that gets her to stick around for much, much, much longer... .because if not, the eventual painting white is going to happen, and I want none of it.
Dont care... .Im stronger than her so if it goes south with the other dude, Im strong enough to tell her to go pack sand. You will be too. So if her relationship lasts 6 months, 18 months, 5 years or 20, Im done with her. Period. There is no way in hell Im going through this again for any reason, even if she got help. I dont need this in my life at all any more. Its like radiation. The closer you get to it, the more your affected. The farther away from it, the less you are affected.