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Covertly stalking me on social media
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She's been keeping tabs on both me and my online friends for the past week. I'm not really creeped out by it, I just don't get why she feels the need to keep track of me. She broke up with me.
This is so messed up. Any theories?
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Messed up but par for the course.
After mine told me she hated me and never wanted to speak to me again she made constant efforts to communicate indirectly with me. I ignored them for a few days and then she started trying to contact me directly.
This included driving by my house, calling me at work and hanging up etc etc
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Quote from: Infern0 on December 01, 2014, 11:24:24 PM
After mine told me she hated me and never wanted to speak to me again she made constant efforts to communicate indirectly with me. I ignored them for a few days and then she started trying to contact me directly.
My first thought was literally, "Uh oh, how long until she starts texting/emailing me again?" She will probably get one of her friends to "feel me out" next.
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