Would it made a difference in the way we dealt with the brake up ?
Would they saved us some unneeded pain and hurt ?
guy,
I'm not sure that I understand the title.
Do you mean that they broke-up with us and kept talking to us?
My ex left and went radio silent. It cut to the core because I felt like I had no voice. I'm not sure if it's less or more painful. I think pain quantifies as pain in these difficult break-ups.
She also broke-up with me because I couldn't bare to break-up because of my co-dependency. The writing was on the wall for a considerable amount of time in my case.
--Mutt
Mutt what I am saying is , if they were not that ugly after the break up and just answered our question "why" ?
She broke up with me because I did not stand with her when treating my family or friends pretty bad I stood with what was right. BTW I just got the book codependency no more that should help me and no more contact I had enough of her lies .