
allycat22
(From one feline forum handle to another!)
My first suggestion to take care of yourself is tell us more about your husband and the difficulties you have with him. Sharing your story in a safe environment really does help you!
We can give you better support if we know more specific things you are having trouble with.
My second suggestion is that we have a LOT of very good material for you to read on this site. Check out "The Lessons" in the sidebar and start reading!
GK